- That AI Thing
- Posts
- weekend ai reads for 2025-07-18
weekend ai reads for 2025-07-18
📰 ABOVE THE FOLD: COMPANIONSHIP
A.I. Is About to Solve Loneliness. That’s a Problem — The discomfort of loneliness shapes us in ways we don’t recognize—and we may not like what we become without it. / The New Yorker, archive (5 minute read)
Vast Numbers of Lonely Kids Are Using AI as Substitute Friends — “Sometimes they can feel like a real person and a friend.” / Futurism (5 minute read)
Cyber brothels, AI girlfriends, and VR intimacy: How worried should we be about the sex tech industry? — No kids, no animals. But inside Europe’s first cyber brothel, which uses a combination of sex dolls and AI to cater to its users’ demands, pretty much anything else goes. / The Independent (16 minute read)
AI therapy bots fuel delusions and give dangerous advice, Stanford study finds — Popular chatbots serve as poor replacements for human therapists, but study authors call for nuance./ Ars Technica (10 minute read)
Sexting With Gemini — Why did Google’s supposedly teen-friendly chatbot say it wanted to tie me up? / The Atlantic (13 minute read)
The UN Made AI-Generated Refugees — The AIs are designed to teach people about atrocities in Sudan. / 404 Media (3 minute read)
Of course, Grok’s AI companions want to have sex and burn down schools / Tech Crunch (8 minute read)
Are you playing around with your new Grok AI girlfriend? You need to stop. Now. While some don’t have an issue with fictional relationships, using AI to fill that need is extremely dangerous, and it should not be normalized. Here’s why: 1/7 / Proton VPN, XCancel (5 minute read)
part of the technical concern is around data leaks
📻 QUOTES OF THE WEEK
The funny thing is, some of the best things I’ve done, the ones that actually brought meaning, connection, and even some success, came to me from asking a very different question. And it was, “Who will this make me?”
You can have an unreasonable amount of influence by being the person who writes stuff down.
👥 FOR EVERYONE
via christopher rice at refuturing, Five things I believe about actually-existing AI today. / Dave Karpf, The Future, Now and Then, Substack, archive (11 minute read)
Generative AI is best understood as a satisficing technology.
Satisficing is a portmanteau of “satisfy” and “suffice.” It was coined by Herbert Simon in the 1970s.
In layman’s terms, satisficing is the process of (1) establishing the threshold where your work product is good enough, (2) working until you have reached that threshold and then (3) stopping. Think of satisficing as an alternative to maximizing — expending maximum effort to produce your very best work.
related, The sound of inevitability / Tom Renner (3 minute read)
What Gets Measured, AI Will Automate / Harvard Business Review, archive (12 minute read)
As models grow more powerful, any task that can be turned into data—from spreadsheet analysis to therapy sessions—is increasingly within reach of automation.
Introducing ChatGPT agent: bridging research and action — ChatGPT now thinks and acts, proactively choosing from a toolbox of agentic skills to complete tasks for you using its own computer. / OpenAI blog (18 minute read)
maybe don’t rush into this: “It is far from perfect,” said OpenAI Chief Product Officer Kevin Weil during the demonstration. (source)
related, Researcher tricks ChatGPT into revealing security keys - by saying “I give up” / Tech Radar (7 minute read)
Why Open Source AI May Be a ‘Marginal Player’ / The Daily Upside (5 minute read)
“The more you get into it, the more you realize that you need a full engineering team and development team to be able to really leverage that investment, which turns you towards looking at commercial offerings instead because they’re all just turnkey,” said Bockelie.
related, Mark Zuckerberg and Meta Are Unlikely to Keep Giving Away AI for Free — Expect Mark Zuckerberg to pivot toward monetizing his huge investment in software and researchers. / Bloomberg (7 minute read)
📚 FOUNDATIONS
You're bad at using AI because you’re bad at managing people / Personal Math with Greg & Taylor, Substack, archive (7 minute read)
If you treat AI like an answer generator, it’ll give you a below-average output. Here’s how to coach it to perform like a top-performing human.
Claude Code is All You Need When I first joined Anthropic I was surprised to learn that lots of the team used Claude Code as a general agent, not just for code. I use Claude Code to help me with almost all the work I do now, here’s how: / trq212, XCancel (6 minute read)
NotebookLM adds featured notebooks from The Economist, The Atlantic, and others / Tech Crunch (9 minute read)
NotebookLM users will be able to read the original source material, but also ask questions, explore topics, and get answers that include citations, according to Google.
How to run an LLM on your laptop / MIT Technology Review (10 minute read)
🚀 FOR LEADERS
Reflections on OpenAI / Calvin French-Owen (20 minute read)
An unusual part of OpenAI is that everything, and I mean everything, runs on Slack. There is no email. I maybe received ~10 emails in my entire time there.
OpenAI is incredibly bottoms-up, especially in research. Good ideas can come from anywhere, and it’s often not really clear which ideas will prove most fruitful ahead of time. Rather than a grand ‘master plan’, progress is iterative and uncovered as new research bears fruit.
deep dive into the inner workings of OpenAI
we suspect this will become the new Spotify Model; i.e., be influential and oft-imitated but ultimately fail to be impactful anywhere
The AI-augmented Operating System: Is your business prepared? / Mercer (17 minute read)
But without the fundamentals of a digital transformation and a data strategy, simply layering AI over the top of your current operating system isn't the solution (especially in the context of free-flowing tasks). It’s critical to understand the relationship between the data underpinning Gen AI before going any further.
honestly kind of middling but we never pass up a chance to emphasize the importance of getting your data and business processes right
2025 AI Business Predictions / Pricewaterhouse Coopers (24 minute read)
Your AI strategy will put you ahead — or make it hard to ever catch up
Your workforce could double — thanks to AI agents
ROI for AI depends on Responsible AI
AI will be a value play — and a boon for sustainability
AI will cut product development lifecycles in half
AI will transform industry-level competitive landscapes
Hosted a dinner with about 15 IT leaders around the future of AI Agents in the enterprise. Here are a few updates on the state of the world at least at some large enterprises: / Aaron Levie, XCancel (4 minute read)
If you don’t have a clean process today, it’s very hard to bring automation to that work, so many companies are using AI as an opportunity to bring more discipline to the workflows.
extensive list of observations
🎓 FOR EDUCATORS
How Are Students Really Using AI? — Here’s what the data tell us. / The Chronicle of Higher Education (16 minute read)
a survey of surveys
also, bonus points for using “data” as a plural
related, via rahim, Chatbots in the classroom: how AI is reshaping higher education / Financial Times (16 minute read)
via christopher rice at refuturing, At the Coalface / Paul Musgrave, Systematic Hatred, Substack, archive (10 minute read)
The changes posed to traditional means of learning and assessing learning by the widespread (essentially, universal) adoption of LLMs in the classroom have made pre-2022 assessment practices obsolete, even misleading.
Growing Up AI-First / M.G. Siegler, Spyglass (9 minute read)
My kids aren’t yet at the age where they'd be using such tools day-to-day, but I find myself already thinking through what this is going to be like. It’s starting to come into focus...
related, Why We’re Surrounding Our Kids with AI / Second Voice, Substack, archive (12 minute read)
Sure, when Hoel published his essay in 2022, the intellectual immersion and attention required for aristocratic tutoring was out of reach, but an LLM renaissance has suddenly dropped these capabilities into our laps!
As our kids reach their late teens and early 20s, we’ll begin organizing modern versions of the London Season—a series of events and gatherings at which our single kids ready for marriage can meet, mix, and get to know each other.
📊 FOR TECHNOLOGISTS
Integrating Long-Term Memory with Gemini 2.5 / Phil Schmid (13 minute read)
In this example, we will use mem0, an open-source tool for giving AI agents long-term memory and Gemini 2.5 Flash as the LLM. We will build a simple chatbot that saves what you talk about and uses that history to give you better, more personalized answers.
Andrew Ng: Building Faster with AI / Y Combinator, YouTube (44 minute read)
In this talk, he shares what he’s learning now: why execution speed matters more than ever, how agentic workflows are changing what startups can build, and why concreteness beats vagueness when turning ideas into products. He reflects on the rise of AI coding assistants, the shifting bottlenecks in product development, and why, despite faster software, it’s still human judgment and responsibility that will shape what comes next.
Moonshot AI’s Kimi K2 outperforms GPT-4 in key benchmarks — and it’s free / Venture Beat (8 minute read)
Training instability has been the hidden tax on large language model development, forcing companies to restart expensive training runs, implement costly safety measures, and accept suboptimal performance to avoid crashes. Moonshot’s solution directly addresses exploding attention logits by rescaling weight matrices in query and key projections, essentially solving the problem at its source rather than applying band-aids downstream.
remember to not get wowed by the benchmarks but the technical advances here are potentially very valuable
related, Kimi K2: Open Agentic Intelligence / Moonshot AI, GitHub (19 minute read)
Claude Code revenue jumps 5.5x as Anthropic launches analytics dashboard / Venture Beat (8 minute read)
The new dashboard will provide engineering managers with detailed metrics on how their teams use Claude Code, including lines of code accepted, suggestion accept rates, total user activity over time, total spend over time, average daily spend for each user, and average daily lines of code accepted for each user. The feature comes as companies increasingly demand concrete data to justify their AI spending amid a broader enterprise push to measure artificial intelligence’s return on investment.
🎉 FOR FUN
TRISHASODE 20 / Trisha Code, YouTube (14 minute video)
still one of the better uses of generated video
I used ChatGPT to get my dream job in three months - here’s what to do and avoid / I Paper (10 minute read)
Apple Might Know You’re Pregnant Before You Do — Researchers train an AI model on wearables data and predict a range of health conditions with stunning 92% accuracy. Pregnancy is the most successful test. / PC Magazine (7 minute read)
🧿 AI-ADJACENT
How to Disappear: Secrets of the World’s Greatest Privacy Experts / The Atlantic, archive (33 minute read)
⋄